let’s talk about sex – some of my favorite things…
I was surfing the net, following up some discussions on the Dominion
mailing
list, and one of them led me to these pictures [1][2]
of a woman having her back laced and later her legs..
There are some other interesting things on that site,
but this one really stood out.
It also turns out that I have seen images like it before. It led
me to begin lacing Kimiko‘s
back once, though outside factors prevented us from finishing. I
did lace her legs individually at a party and that was a lot of
fun ๐
It’s interesting to me that while I have a certain penchant
for doing painful things to pretty
girls,
I really do hope that they look forward to our time together with
enthusiasm.
This creates a slight problem… finding partners who can enjoy
this sort of activity. It is fairly easy to find people who will
endure it in the BDSM
‘community’ or people
who are perfectly capable of exploring pain on what I consider a
surface level. It is much harder to find people who can transition
from playfulness to edge play and back.
In any case, back to the images presented – it just looks like
fun, and it looks like something that I hope the young lady in question
(in my mind, not the girl in the images particularly) could be proud
of. One hopes that she could then circulate at a party
enjoying the looks and the feeling.
On the other hand, I can certainly see the draw in a much darker
sense. I could easily imagine the same party atmosphere with a laced
female immobilized, elegantly dressed or tastefully exposed with
the same lacing trailing up her back and legs… living statuary.
Regardless of the circumstances, I would desire the lady in question
to enjoy the experience and her place in it – a willing participant
in her own exploitation.
I use the word rather deliberately, as I see it as exploitation
in it’s best sense.
In such a situation a decoration like the lacing is for the enjoyment
of those looking on as well as those directly involved. The concepts
implied in such decoration are many – and they are all pleasant.
Sometime I will probably wind up writing an essay on the dynamics
of consensual exploitation and display, but I don’t have the time
right now.
Now that I reread what I see wrote I can state my point much more
concisely now. I love women who are willing participants in their
own exploitation… that is probably my primary fetish ๐