the sex issue – this is probably all only legal for adults…
Well, for whatever reason I wound up surfing a lot of sex stuff today. Not
porn, though I do surf a bunch of that… but more stuff about sex, and the
politics that surround it. What is written here is some commentary and other info that covers this stuff liberally filled in with links.
If you don’t want to or shouldn’t think about sex, don’t
follow any of these.
Let’s talk porn:
Let’s start with a short comment on this whole thing. I like porn. I really like porn. I am one of those people who has probably been shaped in some manner by my exposure to it over my life and you know what, I don’t care. I am more than happy with the things that I have learned at least partially from porn, here are a few…
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Beauty is, well, damn nice to look at
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Sex can be fun
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Being with a woman who enjoys sex is not an impossibility
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Anal sex is good
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Lesbian sex is one of the best things in life
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There is something called BDSM, and it can rock
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The good life is out there, and I want it
These lessons have been influential in many of the choices in my
life.
No doubt the images that I find compelling have been shaped by what I have looked at all these years, and no doubt my desires shape the images I like. For instance, I watched a small MPEG today that showed an amazing blond laying on her stomach, she was being laid anally pretty vigorously by a male partner while a very pretty girl laid her cheek on her ass and looked up at him. In the end, he orgasmed and the second girl caught it in her mouth then cleaned her friend.
This is good.
Good that I live where I can watch it (for now?), good that there is technology that let’s me watch it, good that there are pretty girls who
will do it on ‘film’ and way cool that there are some around out there
who do it for free.
So, to sum it up, porn is good. Porn is inspiring. If you embrace it, it will show you everything there is under the sun and you are bound to find something that trips your trigger. If you have the balls, you can then go out and make it happen in your life.
In fact, for this discussion purpose porn can be anything that inspires you. Because I promise you porn that shows me sex is not any different in shaping me than porn that shows me other stuff I want. Hell, to me, porn is defined pretty much as “cool stuff I want”. Sometimes, it is a amazingly cute girl I want to do ‘things’ to, and other times a talent I want to immerse myself in. I want it. I want to possess it. That’s porn.
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There is beauty porn of course. And more beauty porn… obviously, that could go on for ever.
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There is people porn. In other words
people I want to posses. This is different than just thinking they are cute. Something about how they move, think, or how special they are, or all of the above… -
There is no end of cool porn. Things so cool they just make me want to have them, as much as anyone could own them…
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There is, obviously, sex porn
Ah well, the list goes on… but you get the picture.
Now let’s talk politics:
So, that all being said. Let’s now take a look at some of the politics of sex. If I like looking at beautiful people and it is a given that the body type I like is fit and trim, then you will see quickly that the the body type I prefer is most common to girls who are younger. Let’s pick an average age and say 18-19. So far, the world is a little creeped but not upset too much.
Actually that’s not entirely true. One popular radio “sex guy” would tell an 18 year old girl who called in and told them a 33 year old guy was courting her that I was probably in need of mental help, he has told it to others.
It tells you something about the world that I won’t link to the site above directly, I don’t want them to see my domain in their logs and come check me out. He is fairly touchy about age subjects and might very well cause trouble. For what? I have no idea, but in this day and age…
In any case, let’s agree that there are some pretty hot girls out there who might be a day or two shy of being 18. Of course, in some places it is still legal for me to pursue them, but it is rapidly becoming illegal to take pictures of them… or even talk about them in ‘certain ways’. They can sell us
music and shampoo, soda and clothing, but god forbid we talk about the dirty secret. That they are hot as hell, and they wouldn’t be selling so much stuff if a lot of guys (and girls) didn’t want to take ’em to bed and make ’em scream a little. Let’s face it, she won’t change all THAT much on midnight of her 18th birthday… (note: yeah, Britney’s 18 now, but she wasn’t a little while ago…)
Where is the hypocrisy from really? Sure, the record companies
have to tell us that they aren’t aware of how amazingly
hot and bangable
their stars are… but why? Because the degree of puritanical craziness in the
USA is at an all time high. Your looking at a country that has decided that
images of fully clothed, adult women may be prosecuted as child pornography. A country where your camera may someday call the police if it thinks you are taking an illegal image. Like one of your child in the bathtub.
I don’t mean to get onto a rant. Suffice to say I think that there is a lot of stupidity and hypocrisy. It’s getting weird out there not to mention dangerous and repressive. Constitutional rights are being destroyed and
any real opposition is having a hard time mobilizing. These are dark times when thoughtcrime is a real thing.
It’s not going to get any better. A number of websites are
flirting with the edge of what’s legal, and that is never a good thing when society is on a downward turn in the area of panic and fear. The reactions to these sites is enough to show you how this will all end. With torches and a hanging, like they always do.
That’s not to say I condone all of the ‘modeling’ sites on the net, nor do I think all of them are actually promoting ‘modeling’ careers. Some of them might just be taking advantage of the growing popularity of cute young forms in hot clothes. Some of them might be way over the line, whatever that is. What I am saying is that the aura of hysteria that is going on is not productive and never will be. That current attacks on the constitution are completely unwarranted and that ‘for the children’ is a rallying cry that is often heard right before the jackboots start kicking doors in.
In fact, I will say something pretty daring in today’s world. Something so daring that some of my friends will write me emails and tell me I probably shouldn’t have said it. Something that I could, conceivably, go to jail for someday soon. That fact alone should tell you how crazy it all is.
There are some girls below the age of 18 that are simply stunningly hot. And there is no reason in the world not to acknowledge that and appreciate it.
So those are some of the thoughts that came out of tonight’s surfing adventure. Some of the links in this chain that may or may not be mentioned in the text above are here…
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Daze Reader – some totally cool coverage of sex and politics
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Wired article about the child porn law currently in dispute
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Washington post article about a man jailed for his fantasy diary entries under the new child porn law
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The latest Abercrombie & Fitch catalogue
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A site trying to boycott the catalogue, and providing some pretty
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A Salon article on censorship
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Billboard panic in Florida!
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A Salon article discussing parents in jail for images of their children,
K-Mart decides? -
The Evolution of Desire is a book detailing why it is men like young,
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A Salon article on ‘barely legal porn
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More Salon, an article about a reporter slammed for researching porn chat rooms
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This guy talks about why he finally had to shoot his own porn
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The “torture museum“, a turn on?
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Lap Dance law dismissed
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A sarcastic look at teen starlets and sex… and damn funny!
Night!