A recent discussion on FetLife centered around the concept of “Leather Titles”. Below you will find both of my posts. I have edited out the words of others and paraphrased them. “I know some title holders who are good people and I know a bunch of them who are morons who happened to fuck the…

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srsly. “Here are the basics. The Optimus Mini connects to your PC via USB and features three keys, each with their own backlit OLED screen. Each key can display a static image or full animation. Press the key and a different action occurs depending on what is assigned to it. Think it as some kind…

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In a separate thread, someone made a comment that basically those of us who don’t use safewords are trying to be edgy and thus “hot” but that essentially we are all the same and in agreement. I can’t reproduce the quote exactly since the words of others in private forums are not for me to…

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In a recent thread on FetLife, the topic of safewords reared it’s head again. Here was my contribution. “Whether the word is “tuna” or “stop!” the core component of a safe word is that when it is uttered the dominant / top is _obligated_ to take action, or at least take notice. In many cases…

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Recently on a FetLife thread some folks have got themselves all in a huff about third person speech. They have made a variety of silly argument son the topic and frankly if you actually care go read the thread. “Apparently it is the end of the world as we know it. It is not only…

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Good rules – not just for a gun fight, but for most of your life. Bring a gun. Preferably, bring at least two guns. Bring all of your friends who have guns. Anything worth shooting is worth shooting twice. Ammo is cheap. Your life is expensive. Only hits count. The only thing worse than a…

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You should also go re-read my old post titled “Bang!”.

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Continuing to capture some of my own posts for posterity… these were written about 3 months from the date of this post. When talking about issues of human error, so many factors come into play it is staggering. If I bet someone’s life every day that I had unloaded and verified a weapon then there…

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In an old thread on Fetlife the topic of gunplay came up. Someone asked how risky it was, and how folks manage those risks. This was my reply, and it’s worth capturing here…   The actual risks fall into three categories. I’ll only really address two of them The first is human error. It is…

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