{"id":275,"date":"2000-06-23T02:51:50","date_gmt":"2000-06-23T02:51:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.soulhuntre.com\/items\/date\/2000\/06\/23\/a-special-thanks-to\/"},"modified":"2000-06-23T02:51:50","modified_gmt":"2000-06-23T02:51:50","slug":"a-special-thanks-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/2000\/06\/23\/a-special-thanks-to\/","title":{"rendered":"A special thanks to"},"content":{"rendered":"

A special thanks to special girls<\/u><\/b> – way too late,
\n but important…<\/p>\n

I was not forgotten on Fathers day, and I really like that. Some
\n of you may or may not know that the
\n girls<\/a> sometimes call me "Daddy" – they have a short
\n comment<\/a>
\n on the topic on their site. You can find other<\/i><\/u> points
\n of view on this type of dynamic on the web as well [1<\/a>][2<\/a>]
\n though they don’t really match the way it works here, each probably
\n has some insight to give.<\/p>\n

Personally, I love the term… it has a lot of meaning for me,
\n and I know they don’t use it lightly. Yes, there are some aspects
\n of it that are kinky, and deliberately so… but mostly it is a
\n comment on our relationship. <\/p>\n

It also serves as an interesting indicator of how the relationship(s)
\n are going. When someone is pissed off at me I can always tell because
\n they retreat farther and farther from calling me Daddy, and you
\n can tell they aren’t thinking of me in those terms. It’s distressing
\n to me when it happens to be honest – it is like your girlfriend
\n suddenly calling you "Mr."<\/p>\n

Now, sometimes I deserve the extra formality because I have
\n been a prick, sometimes I don’t deserve it and it is a mood swing,
\n sometimes we are in a more formal protocol<\/a>
\n and it just has to be that way and sometimes it has nothing to do
\n with me at all… but I would almost always rather be "Daddy"
\n than anything else.<\/p>\n

If someone calls you "Daddy" it means they look up to
\n you (at least around these parts), and the flipside is very special
\n to me… it makes me think of them as mine. Not really in a BDSM
\n property kind of way – though that is certainly an aspect I hope
\n for as well in my heart of hearts. My instinctive response is to
\n think of her as "my little girl".<\/p>\n

It makes me proud, it makes me feel good about myself, and it arouses
\n me of course. I don’t know that I ever feel better about myself,
\n or closer to them. Of course, I hate liking it so much – it makes
\n me vulnerable, but it’s worth it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A special thanks to special girls – way too late, but important… I was not forgotten on Fathers day, and I really like that. Some of you may or may not know that the girls sometimes call me "Daddy" – they have a short comment on the topic on their site. You can find other […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":53196,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"aside","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[278],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}