{"id":280,"date":"2000-06-26T06:48:10","date_gmt":"2000-06-26T06:48:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.soulhuntre.com\/items\/date\/2000\/06\/26\/lets-talk-about-sex-some-of-my-favorite-things\/"},"modified":"2000-06-26T06:48:10","modified_gmt":"2000-06-26T06:48:10","slug":"lets-talk-about-sex-some-of-my-favorite-things","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/2000\/06\/26\/lets-talk-about-sex-some-of-my-favorite-things\/","title":{"rendered":"let’s talk about sex – some of my favorite things…"},"content":{"rendered":"

let’s talk about sex<\/u><\/b> – some of my favorite things…<\/p>\n

I was surfing the net, following up some discussions on the Dominion<\/a>
\n mailing
\n list<\/a>, and one of them led me to these pictures [1<\/a>][2<\/a>]
\n of a woman having her back laced and later her legs<\/a>..
\n There are some other interesting things on that site<\/a>,
\n but this one really stood out.<\/p>\n

It also turns out that I have seen images like it before. It led
\n me to begin lacing Kimiko<\/a>‘s
\n back once, though outside factors prevented us from finishing. I
\n did lace her legs individually at a party and that was a lot of
\n fun \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

It’s interesting to me that while I have a certain penchant<\/a>
\n for doing painful things to pretty<\/a>
\n girls<\/a>,
\n I really do hope that they look forward to our time together with
\n enthusiasm<\/a>.
\n This creates a slight problem… finding partners who can enjoy
\n this sort of activity. It is fairly easy to find people who will
\n endure it in the BDSM<\/a>
\n ‘community’ or people<\/a>
\n who are perfectly capable of exploring pain on what I consider a
\n surface level. It is much harder to find people who can transition
\n from playfulness to edge play and back.<\/p>\n

In any case, back to the images presented – it just looks like
\n fun, and it looks like something that I hope the young lady in question
\n (in my mind, not the girl in the images particularly) could be proud
\n of. One hopes that she could then circulate at a party<\/a>
\n enjoying the looks and the feeling.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, I can certainly see the draw in a much darker
\n sense. I could easily imagine the same party atmosphere with a laced
\n female immobilized, elegantly dressed or tastefully exposed with
\n the same lacing trailing up her back and legs… living statuary<\/a>.\n <\/p>\n

Regardless of the circumstances, I would desire the lady in question
\n to enjoy the experience and her place in it – a willing participant
\n in her own exploitation<\/a>.
\n I use the word rather deliberately, as I see it as exploitation
\n in it’s best sense. <\/p>\n

In such a situation a decoration like the lacing is for the enjoyment
\n of those looking on as well as those directly involved. The concepts
\n implied in such decoration are many – and they are all pleasant.
\n Sometime I will probably wind up writing an essay on the dynamics
\n of consensual exploitation and display, but I don’t have the time
\n right now.<\/p>\n

Now that I reread what I see wrote I can state my point much more
\n concisely now. I love women who are willing participants in their
\n own exploitation… that is probably my primary fetish \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

let’s talk about sex – some of my favorite things… I was surfing the net, following up some discussions on the Dominion mailing list, and one of them led me to these pictures [1][2] of a woman having her back laced and later her legs.. There are some other interesting things on that site, but […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":53167,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"aside","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[278],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=280"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=280"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=280"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}