On the assertion that failure to disclose the details of any accusation made against a TES member is unethical\u2026<\/em><\/p>\nBullshit. Maintaining the privacy of the accused until the resolution of process is ethically __required__ in my book. The last thing in the world we need is anyone with an axe to grind or feels slighted to have the power to demand my identity and that TES as an organization provide a soap box or forum for their ranting. <\/p>\n
The process your demanding has been tried before in society \u2013 and still happens. Everywhere it touches it is a miserable failure and a total destruction of privacy and personal freedoms. There are places in the US where they publish the names, addresses and photographs of men _accused_ of being customers of prostitutes. They do this under the same banner you rally behind \u2013 that somehow the very fact of an accusation means that one should be held up to public scrutiny and ridicule.<\/p>\n
The result? Abuse. Lost jobs. Violent assaults. Destroyed lives. Long before these men are found innocent or guilty even the innocent ones have been hurt. Its a stupid concept.<\/p>\n
Besides\u2026 it\u2019s not like your being silenced. You have open forums to rant and rave about it. You have the entire internet to spout off on\u2026 and you seem to be doing a fine job of it. <\/p>\n
Not only is there no cover up<\/em> but one would not even be POSSIBLE<\/strong>. Who do you think cares about this accusation that you are not reaching? What sort of soap box are you looking for? Do you really think it makes sense for TES to be forced to post the details and names of every accusation on their website in the name of some Wally World version of transparency?<\/p>\nI can see it now\u2026 a whole page of announcements\u2026<\/p>\n
\n- Be it known that on this day of our lord, 00\/00\/00 TES Member Fred is accused of being a cowardly dog fucker. Investigation is pending. <\/li>\n
- Be it known that on this day of our lord, 00\/00\/00 TES Member Stan is accused of hating puppies, also he totally ate the last of the dumplings and he _knows_ I love dumplings! Investigation is pending. <\/li>\n
- Be it known that on this day of our lord, 00\/00\/00 TES Member Francine Is accused that she, quote, \u201cdidn\u2019t pay her half of the cable bill.\u201d Investigation is pending. <\/li>\n
- Be it known that on this day of our lord, 00\/00\/00 TES Member Darren stands accused of being a bad father who ruthlessly beat his children for no reason. Investigation is pending. <\/li>\n
- Be it known that on this day of our lord, 00\/00\/00 TES Member Jerome stands accused by an anonymous source of \u201cbeing a CIA spy who lives in my back teeth and watches me floss\u201d. Investigation is pending. <\/li>\n
- Be it known that on this day of our lord, 00\/00\/00 TES Member Slinky stands accused of not using all their rollover minutes(tm). Investigation is pending. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Please\u2026 what a travesty that would be. Not only would most of the accusations be stupid and trivial but even the serious ones would be nothing but a farce. Accusations would be trumped up every time someone ended a relationship or got pissed at an ex lover. The appearance of someone’s name in such a list would taint their reputation long after any possible resolution of the incident. it\u2019s a dumb idea.<\/p>\n
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In response to the pithy sign off. Something about omelets and breaking eggs\u2026<\/em><\/p>\nYour welcome to continue to rant for the rest of your life for all I care. The reality is that the organization will follow it\u2019s process and come to it\u2019s conclusions and take it\u2019s action. You will then either take the credit or claim to be a wounded downtrodden victim. In the movie in your head it will no doubt revolve all around you like some cut rate version of Le Mis.<\/p>\n
Whatever. You have fun with that \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
p.s. Do keep overusing the word alleged<\/em>. it makes you sound much more credible and a lot less crazy. Really.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The humor continues. I got a response from the leader of the pack on my Fetlife \u201cwall\u201d. Since I do not repost the words of anyone but myself from private forums, you will have to go there to read it. What I have done below is pull useful chunks of my response to preserve here […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":56228,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"aside","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[278],"tags":[286],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3599"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3599"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3599\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/legacyiamsenseiken.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}